Your Daily Dose of Chocolate

2 June 12

I love those people that use Tumblr as a personal diary to pour out their real, raw emotions and/or even just use it to record their simple day-to-day activities. A Tumblr full of reblogs of pretty pictures is cool too and I mean, it’s your blog, you’re free to do whatever you’d like. Nothing wrong at all with constantly reblogging. :) But sometimes it’s so refreshing and intriguing for me to come across those blogs where I can see and feel its author think and write and just express themselves, unafraid to show their vulnerabilities and those little nuances that make them that much more human.

I think part of a fulfilling life is getting to know other humans, whether its reading about them or actually having a conversation with them. This is especially good for people who are shy/awkward or introverts like me who would like to come out of their shell a little more - by making that effort to get to know others and be a part of someone’s life, you become less preoccupied with your own inhibitions and gradually turn into a less shy/awkward person (haha), a better communicator, a more caring individual, and an all around greater person. You feel better about yourself and what you have to offer this fascinating world.

11 February 12

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Couldn’t believe it when I heard it. Feeling the same sudden sadness when I first heard about MJ’s death. :/ I decided to use this specific photo because I have this album and it was one of my most treasured albums to listen to as I was growing up.

My inspiration, my idol…you will NEVER be forgotten. Rest in super songstress diva heaven, Whitney Houston (08/09/1963 - 02/11/2012).

5 February 12

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I don’t care what anybody says.

I’ve always thought these guys were fucking ADORABLE.

28 January 12

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Yes, I play videogames :)<3

Yes, I drink coke. :) <3

Yah i play vidya gaem 2

Yes, I own a coffee table :)<3

Yes, I use paper towels :)<3

Yes, I use lamps :) <3
A+

yeaaah a use receptz hehehehe <3 :L

yea i read feminist literature ;) <3 <3

Yes, I haz playstazin.

YES, I HAVE A DOG.

I will admit that it irks me when people talk as though girls (especially when they specify -attractive- girls) who play videogames are like MAGICAL UNICORNS that are born once every millennia. Pfft, I know many. And so, this post just MADE MY WEEK. Hahahaha! - Jin (behindinfinity)
Took the words right out of my mouth, LOL. Ladies, please don’t do this. You not only look like an idiot holding a controller thinking you’re hot stuff, but you’re only further objectifying females who actually enjoy playing video games (and are DAMN GOOD AT THEM) regardless of mindless males who think “gamer girls” are hot/rare delicacies or whatever.

Yes, I play videogames :)<3

Yes, I drink coke. :) <3

Yah i play vidya gaem 2

Yes, I own a coffee table :)<3

Yes, I use paper towels :)<3

Yes, I use lamps :) <3

A+

yeaaah a use receptz hehehehe <3 :L

yea i read feminist literature ;) <3 <3

Yes, I haz playstazin.

YES, I HAVE A DOG.

I will admit that it irks me when people talk as though girls (especially when they specify -attractive- girls) who play videogames are like MAGICAL UNICORNS that are born once every millennia. Pfft, I know many. And so, this post just MADE MY WEEK. Hahahaha! - Jin (behindinfinity)

Took the words right out of my mouth, LOL. Ladies, please don’t do this. You not only look like an idiot holding a controller thinking you’re hot stuff, but you’re only further objectifying females who actually enjoy playing video games (and are DAMN GOOD AT THEM) regardless of mindless males who think “gamer girls” are hot/rare delicacies or whatever.

8 January 12

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“ The strongest and most beautiful people are the ones who continue to smile, continue to love with all their heart, and continue to give their best efforts in everything they do…even when they are hurting inside and even when their conditions are in the most terrible state.

— Me

11 December 11

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Often times I feel the need to just go out in some heavily wooded forest, or a vast open field, or some deserted island to live on my own for a while, fight for my own survival, rediscover myself and learn the importance of this life. I want to go on a journey. I want to spend a good while on the mountains of Tibet to explore the land, speak to the people and really get to know them, learn from the monks, rejuvenate my body, mind, and spirit. Look at this place. It’s absolutely beautiful.

I think sometimes people just need to go far, far away from the comfortable and wherever we may call “home” to really find out who they truly are and to understand the significance of what it is to be alive on this Earth. I would really like this right now.

28 November 11

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This is from the slut walk. One of the arguments is that girls ask for rape because they wear slutty clothes, short skirts, tight, low-cut tops. This girl is an example of the fact that rape victims can look like anyone, you, me, this girl. Rapists. Dont. Discriminate.

As irritating as it is when people say “It’s the girl’s fault, they asked for it…” kind of bullshit, I’m going to control my anger and instead try to educate as to why this is a ridiculous notion. Say you were the assailant. How is it the victim’s fault that YOU would go so far as to aggressively go against this vulnerable person’s will just to bring yourself some kind of control and satisfaction? Are you, as the assailant, some kind of primitive small-brained animal that lacks the simple ability to CONTROL yourself and RESPECT others? Nobody WANTS or ASKS or “DESERVES” to be raped. That’s just horrible. This should be something so fundamental yet a vast majority of people I will talk to regarding this matter will still say, “Well, it’s the girl’s fault for looking so-and-so way…”. It’s NEVER the VICTIM’S fault. Like the above description stated, rape victims can look like anyone. And believe it or not, most rape victims were raped at places they thought were safe, NOT dressed “promiscuously” and NOT doing anything that would make them seem so. So instead of shameless victim-blaming and slut-shaming, educate yourself. Start with this article I found. Also found this guy’s blog as I was browsing the interwebs. Really interesting. Read it all. Think about it.

This is from the slut walk. One of the arguments is that girls ask for rape because they wear slutty clothes, short skirts, tight, low-cut tops. This girl is an example of the fact that rape victims can look like anyone, you, me, this girl. Rapists. Dont. Discriminate.

As irritating as it is when people say “It’s the girl’s fault, they asked for it…” kind of bullshit, I’m going to control my anger and instead try to educate as to why this is a ridiculous notion. Say you were the assailant. How is it the victim’s fault that YOU would go so far as to aggressively go against this vulnerable person’s will just to bring yourself some kind of control and satisfaction? Are you, as the assailant, some kind of primitive small-brained animal that lacks the simple ability to CONTROL yourself and RESPECT others? Nobody WANTS or ASKS or “DESERVES” to be raped. That’s just horrible. This should be something so fundamental yet a vast majority of people I will talk to regarding this matter will still say, “Well, it’s the girl’s fault for looking so-and-so way…”. It’s NEVER the VICTIM’S fault. Like the above description stated, rape victims can look like anyone. And believe it or not, most rape victims were raped at places they thought were safe, NOT dressed “promiscuously” and NOT doing anything that would make them seem so. So instead of shameless victim-blaming and slut-shaming, educate yourself. Start with this article I found. Also found this guy’s blog as I was browsing the interwebs. Really interesting. Read it all. Think about it.

(Source: rapeculturemakesmeangry)

2 November 11

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I just read this article.

I always debate about this with myself for when I get married, if ever. Keeping your last name feels respectful to your own family and your own identity. But at the same time I feel like it would seem rude towards the husband’s family if you don’t take their surname, if you look at it from a traditional sense versus it being an entirely gender-related issue. But then what about for gay couples? Seems a bit complicated, huh? As of now, I think I’m leaning more towards these options: both couples just keep your damn names or BOTH of you change your last name to a different one that both sides agree on. Wouldn’t that be fun anyways? Picking a cool, new last name together…I think it sounds fun! It could be another exciting part of the marriage experience lol.

20 October 11

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I don’t know if this applies in other Asian cultures (or cultures whose diets heavily consist of rice), but I feel that it is a true skill to balance out your rice and “ulam” (basically, whatever main dish you’re eating with your rice) when you eat, so that you have exactly one last bite of ulam and one last bite of rice left. I am proud to say, that thanks to my culture(and/or my slightly obsessive-compulsive behavior), I have perfected this precise skill.

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YOSH.

I’ve made it a goal of mine to see BoA in person again at least one more time before it is my turn to leave this Earth.

Themed by Hunson. Originally by Josh